I don’t have time.
I need to make more money.
I’m a very serious Nanogothic now.
(Written in Nanum Gothic, read in courtesy).
I have two children, 6 and 4 years old,
and I want to have and raise a third.
Given my stamina and energy
I am physically running out of time.
I need to make more money.
But the world doesn’t give me what I want easily.
The cost of living is skyrocketing, and house prices are already touching the sky.
They say times are getting better, but there are still a lot of stupid people in the world.
So I’m forced to take care of children, and my willpower falters again.
The reason why I’m giving in is that I need money.
If I had enough money
I don’t have to look at the price tag at the grocery store
I don’t have to look at price tags at the grocery store
I can move to a neighborhood that’s easier to live in with my kids.
But you don’t have enough money.
You need to look good at work to get good reviews.
That’s the only way you can get a raise and a performance bonus.
You want to buy a lot of things at the grocery store, but you see the price tag.
It makes me think about whether I really need it.
There are hills around your house, and there are old men smoking in the parking lot.
When you leave the house, you have to think about whether the air is pleasant or not.
The 100,000 won per child child allowance
250,000 won for after-school special activities to keep them occupied until 6 p.m. in kindergarten.
Mathematically, you shouldn’t have children.
Objectively speaking, I shouldn’t have children.
Nevertheless, I have a love for my child that overcomes all of this.
So I want to be a parent of three children.
South Korea is facing a population decline worse than the Black Death in Europe
Korea has an extremely low birth rate
Young South Koreans don’t want to perpetuate poverty
I don’t have enough money.
I need to make more money.
Would you have a child if I gave you enough money?
many people would still say “NO”.
However, I can answer “YES”.
I want a third child because of my love for children.
You can’t raise a child with love in a capitalist society.
It costs too much money.
I do a lot of image training on myself.
Consume less and raise with love.
I thought, “Why can’t I just have childcare for growth?
At first, I thought so, and I raised my first child, and then I raised my second child.
One year old, two years old, three years old, four years old, the child’s ego gets bigger and bigger.
the more they hang out with their friends, the more they learn, the more they want.
I saw it on Instagram, I saw it on YouTube, I heard about it from a friend.
The nano-scale information that’s being generated is dazzling me.
Even as an adult, I am bombarded by countless media and surroundings.
My will and consciousness are fading away, and I’m becoming a chameleon that resembles the colors of my surroundings.
Experts say.
Give your child a smartphone as late as possible.
There is no child in the world who can resist the myriad of temptations in a smartphone.
I can’t blame them when I, as an adult, have a hard time controlling myself.
I need to make more money.
I am physically running out of time.
I can’t have more children and raise them with love in a capitalist society.
It costs too much money.
South Korea is on the brink of extinction
South Korea has an extremely low birth rate
Young South Koreans don’t want to perpetuate poverty.
I agree with them.
I say to the single and married couples around me.
“It’s too hard to have children and raise them.
I think it’s better to be childless or have only one child.
Unless, like me, you have a lot of love for children.”
A national crisis has arrived.
All support policies are geared towards young couples or future couples who will have children
All support policies are geared towards young couples who will have children.
For those young couples or future couples
People who have children and raise them say.
“Don’t have children, you’re the ones who are suffering.
Source.
I don’t feel like I’ve benefited from the state by having and raising children.
It’s too much of a sacrifice for parents.
And the sacrifices of their parents’ parents.
It’s been a long time since children were raised by their grandparents.
Parenting depression has expanded from the parents of the child to the parents of the child and beyond.
In these challenging times, both nationally and personally
The parents who gave birth to and raised us all say the same thing.
“Why is it so hard to raise kids these days?
I don’t remember lattes being this hard.”
They say.
Source
I understand and empathize with parenting depression.
Parenting depression is so normal.
I’ve experienced it myself.
When I’m at home, holding my child and looking out the window, the energy of the earth pulls me down.
I’ve experienced the earth pulling me down strongly.
I’ve experienced the earth tugging me downward strongly, as if I’m about to let go of my child from a great height.
I had a terrible experience of my mind trying to control my behavior beyond my control.
Parenting is hard.
Parenting is hard.
That’s why I can only recommend childlessness or one child.
It’s just the mood of the times and the direction of policy.
2 + 1 = -1
One child also makes a country disappear.
2 + 0 = -2
Childlessness leads to the extinction of nations.
Enter a source
The cost of living is skyrocketing, and house prices are already touching the sky.
They say times have gotten better, but there are still a lot of idiots in the world.
So parenting comes into play and my willpower falters again.
The cycle of hardship is always repeated because of having children.
There are many people who are struggling but have no choice.
Parents are hard. Children are hard.
There is no solution in sight.
Mathematically, you shouldn’t have children.
Objectively, you shouldn’t have kids.
Nevertheless, I still have a love for my child that can overcome all of this.
So I want to be a parent of three.
I need to earn money.
Physically, I’m running out of time.
I can’t have more children and raise them with love in a capitalist society.
It costs too much money.
The world doesn’t give me what I want easily.
I still want to be a parent of three children.
